Big C said:
The Taliban are not the most educated of folk, but they know the area* pretty well, 'cause it's theirs. They knew just the right moment to step things up, as the US really started to pull out and the Afghanistan government (such as it is) forces turned and ran. This makes them look more powerful and decisive.
Oops. But so what? We're doing the right thing. We have no strategic interest there. Humanitarian interest, sure, but that could be said for tons of spots on the globe. (Cool that we increased the literacy rate for a generation of women there, but we can do the same somewhere else, if we want.)
Trump and Biden both agreed on this. What does that tell you? The only people who think we should be there are the "experts" who are intellectually or financially invested in the US policing the world.
Did Joe Biden lie to the American people about how the pull-out would unfold? LOL, how many times did Trump lie to the American people? They kept count: Wasn't it WELL into the thousands? Wake me up when Biden gets to ONE PERCENT of that...
* I hesitate to even call Afghanistan a "country". It is, but in name only. It is a huge area with different groups of people speaking different languages and not much of anything tying them all together.
I do wonder if you asked a normal Afghan person what they are, if they would say afghani or whatever tribe they are from. Point being, do the locals even believe in a united Afghan country, because to me it does not appear so, and the USA should not force them be within one.
Nonetheless, if another failed state develops that allows jihadists to start recruiting, training, planning and carrying out attacks against Americans. I would support military action to destroy the bases, camps and other infrastructure supporting those activities (you cant just let them take shots at you). Only this time, we go in, neutralize the threat and get back out, no need to nation build.
As for how we get them to stop hating us. Not being there is a good first step. Heck, the US and Vietnam are actually solid allies now.